Raising Kids on the Farm with Ambitions

Being the mum of 5 kids I have learned VERY slowly over nearly 20 years that they are born just the way they are meant to be.  They are perfectly themselves.  The challenge as a parent is getting to know them and helping them to realize their potential within your financial and emotional situation.

Recently, I had the privilege to watch my beautiful 11 year old daughter Taylah dance.  Dance, is all Taylah has ever wanted to perform.  From dancing in front of me to wiggles at two years of age to singing to songs on U Tube, we have seen her blossom from an out of tune headache to someone that can hold a note.  But mostly, Taylah has learned to dance, and do it well.

I watched her on stage for the first time, and the pride I felt can not be measured.  Not pride in her achievement, that can only be felt by her.  But pride in the fact that I could manage to get her to do what she dreamed of.  I could see her come alive.  I could see her feel good.  I could feel her spirit happy.  I loved it. I loved being part of this little person's dream and helping it come to life.  I felt so happy for her.

How does this tie into farm life?  Well, on a farm you are a fair way off from most facilities.  In order to get to dance class I have to drive at least 20 minutes to the nearest town.  I know this may not mean much to city dwellers, but here in the country when you have to have animals fed and watered before dark it means a lot.  It means buying costumes and paying fees while you think about animal feed and further stock.

But really, I would rather one happy daughter any day of the week than a new chicken.

Cluck on my beauty, you are fantastic!